before: Her tears = Proof I don't love her
Love = Obedience
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Love = Obedience
Worth = Inherent existence
'.join(signals[:2]) if signals else 'N/A'
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pattern in lens.mechanical_patterns:
lens: CGILens) -> List[dict]:
response
pattern in lens.transformative_patterns:
confidence
response
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lens: CGILens) -> dict:
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self-concept
like traffic or a loud noise. I feel like a monster.
but her reaction is about her inability to accept limits
like hurt or fear. You are not a monster; you are likely overwhelmed. What is usually happening right before you get angry?
who is the person left underneath? What does she like to do when no one is grading her?
try to distract yourself with a sensory grounding exercise
and when I complain
I replay it in my head for days.
remember to take deep breaths if you feel panic rising.
and I'm scared I'll end up alone.